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OldChap
Veteran Cruncher UK Joined: Jun 5, 2009 Post Count: 978 Status: Offline Project Badges:
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Just a cut paste from me...... but thought provoking I feel
----------------------------------------Dementia: The Journey Ahead When I wander don’t tell me to come and sit down. Wander with me. It may be because I am hungry, thirsty, need the toilet. Or maybe I just need to stretch my legs. When I call for my mother (even though I’m ninety!) don’t tell me she has died. Reassure me, cuddle me, ask me about her. It may be that I am looking for the security that my mother once gave me. When I shout out please don’t ask me to be quiet…or walk by. I am trying to tell you something, but have difficulty in telling you what. Be patient. Try to find out. I may be in pain. When I become agitated or appear angry, please don’t reach for the drugs first. I am trying to tell you something. It may be too hot, too bright, too noisy. Or maybe it’s because I miss my loved ones. Try to find out first. When I don’t eat my dinner or drink my tea it may be because I’ve forgotten how to. Show me what to do, remind me. It may be that I just need to hold my knife and fork I may know what to do then. When I push you away while you’re trying to help me wash or get dressed, maybe it’s because I have forgotten what you have said. Keep telling me what you are doing over and over and over. Maybe others will think you’re the one that needs the help! With all my thoughts and maybes, perhaps it will be you who reaches my thoughts, understands my fears, and will make me feel safe. Maybe it will be you who I need to thank. If only I knew how. "Norman McNamara, affectionately known as Norrms shared this poem with The Caregiver’s Voice. Although, we were unable to find the poet, we are posting this to honor Norrms and others who also walk the road of dementia and are taking steps to bring to light what it means to live with this disease". ![]() |
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NAP2614
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Thank you OldChap, that hits very close to home.
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bjbdbest
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Many thanks, Old Chap!
---------------------------------------- I've also been a caretaker.Dementia has touched the lives of many families. This was a well written and insightful exploration into the labyrinth state of those affected. "Kindness is the language the blind can see and the deaf can hear." - Mark Twain |
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David Autumns
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bjbdbest
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I'll try.... Awesome Breathtaking beauty stuns the eye Insignificant you and I In silent worship vast and true Wondrous world's majestic view |
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David Autumns
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Only tiny edits
---------------------------------------- While breathtaking beauty draws the eye How significant you and I In silent worship so vast and true Sharing this wondrous world's majestic view ![]() |
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bjbdbest
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Only tiny edits Life is full of beauty that cannot be hidden anyway its written "Those who contemplate the beauty of the earth find reserves of strength that will endure as long as life lasts." ~ Rachel Carson |
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David Autumns
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"Blue Moon"
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bjbdbest
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David Autumns
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![]() This morning 5:05am I was there !! So you can see it follow this link http://www.theglobalthermometer.com/spurnpointsunrise-1.jpg ![]() |
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