Jean Pierre, I appreciate a lot many things you do, but here frankly I really do not follow you.
First of all you can allways send private mails to anybody you wish, you do not need to post it here on the forum and make it known. The forum is an open space for discussion, and when it comes to technical issues it is even more fundamental that we have transparency, so that everybody can learn and avoid to repeat mistakes.
Second the answer you made to Sek was agressive with no reason. Sek was perfectly entitled to react to your attitude. Instead of explaining to him why, you just said in short "none of your business". Fine, but if that is the case why do you need to make it known to the whole world that you have a private discussion, which in fact is not true, as I understand you solved the issue. Just for a remainder, the issue was put forward to the forum by acpartsman who did the right thing: he shared his problem with all of us. It is normal that we all expect you as a CA to do the same.
I hope that you understand your attitude was really not the right one, and I would really appreciate that you to share with us how you solved the problem.