thanks sekerob,
and Tim for sharing what you felt,
there was no meaning to offend anyone, i don't think there was anything offensive in what been said that post yet calling it garbage was not too positive either...,
it really wasn't "garbage",
people seeing things differently can only enrich our view of the world,
there is always place for patience, for trying to figure out what the person who is posting is trying to say and not attack him instantly,
though if we can get into a place of equity so this is the meaning of this thread,

again there wasn't any meaning to sting anyone, the wording itself could have been set maybe differently,
and i was aware of the risk when originally posting,
i'm glad we could have speak it out, at least a bit :).

you meant the OP link?

cause if so, i too saw it very crude,
i couldn't even read it.

maybe some lessons learn here

this thread can be now officially closed :).