I just want to say THANK YOU to all of you. I am at work and should be selling boots, but instead, I am crying over all these heart felt responses! Y'all made me cry!! LOL
My favorite card was one that my Step Sister gave to me after the death of my son.
He was buried on his actual birthday, and not one person acknowledged that except for her.
When she arrived at the church for the funeral, she brought balloons and a gift and a card, all wrapped in bright beautiful paper and there were at least a dozen ballons... she did not offer the typical grave spray. many people looked at her like she had lost her mind. Me, I saw her walk in and immediately knew, she remembered. And I wrapped my arms around her and cried.
She put the balloons beside his casket and handed me the gift and card.
It was it was all for me, and she said that she knows that Tamon would have wanted it that way, because he was always giving his gifts away anyway... which he did. She had lost a daughter several years prior, and she told me...
I refuse to let you forget that this boy lived, and I refuse to let today be all about his death, because it is also ALL ABOUT his BIRTH.
What she wrote in that card still makes me cry, like snot running down my chin kind of tears.
Just knowing that she cared that much, to acknowledge that he did live, and that it was his ACTUAL birthday, meant the world to me. I honestly don't think that I ever told her how much that truly meant to me.
Have a Wonderful Day! ~Misty