While I am not a turkey fan, I love love love the stuffing (made the old-fashioned-probably-not-safe-way...in da bird!), dad won't make the stuffing without the whole turkey. The recipe and techniques are the same as when grandpa was in charge of Thanksgiving. At 85 and 90, my parents still insist on making Thanksgiving dinner with all the traditional New England trimmings and my favorite part is seeing how proud my dad is that he can still do this for his family, and that we get to spend time together eating, telling stories, napping, napping, eating again, and more napping. Togetherness - that's my favorite part.