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[Jenn Kellams]

 SWEETIE, YOU NEED SLEEEP!  (sorry, at work and had the darn caps lock thing going again )  But, you are worrying yourself way too much about the little things!  People always have things to say about everything, so don't concern yourself!  Here is what you need to be concentrating on:  A:  You have a wonderful hibby;  B:  you have a handsome, heathy cute little guy already, and C: you are getting another heathy little guy who will undoubtedly be just as gorgeous as big brother Eli.  And Eli will be thrilled to be a big brither!

People always have to make comments, sometimes they open their mouths and nonsense comes out, don't oncern yoiurself!  Once this little guy settles into your lives then you guys can decide if and when you decide to try for another.  But, that is a family matter

{{{{{hugs}}}}  and get some rest!!!!

      I agree.  I have 2 boys  young men.

You said the exact thing I was trying to say.  Thanks!

[catsx2]

 Coming from a mom who recently had her second boy-you never hear the end of it.  We hear from MIL-I really want a granddaughter(sil and I both have all boys) and dh's grandma says to the baby when she sees him-"you should have been a girl."   In fact when she tries to get the baby to smile at her after she says that he won't smile at her(he is only 7 months) but the minute you take him away from her he smiles-like I'll show you. Now that I have two boys I can't even imagine(at least right now) having a girl. These two boys are a blast.  Is MIL driving you nuts about this?  Tell her to bug her other child-maybe then she'll get her granddaughter!

[Joy]

 Four boys here and I did get that ((((HUGS))))

[torysmom]

 People are rude, don't worry.  I have 2 girls and honestly if i have a third i would want it to be a girl...

[deerewife]

 We got lots of it!  Quite frankly I was relieved when wefound out we were having another girl - I knew they would be much closer than a boy and a girl.
We still get grief about not having a boy - but you can't guarentee anything and I'm scared of having 3 teenage girls!  So, no more kids for us. 

Don't let it get to you - God is giving you two boys for a reason.

[-Tracy-]

 

I would NEVER say something like that another person to hurt their feeling regardless of what you think.

I didn't say that you did it on purpose. I said it was rude. And if you read this thread, you'll see that most of us all feel the same way.

[Shanscraps]

you will have two little boys growing up together being best friends, looking out for each other, it will be okay.... even if you had one more, a girl might just not be in the cards for you... Just hope for a healthy baby, we comes it will be a different story....

[davsar]

 Sorry hon!!  Hopefully they didn't mean to be rude, but even if they did - who cares!!  You are going to have a baby boy soon and that is so exciting!!!!!!