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Time for me to let it out

Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 12:20 am
by Jeanne Marie's Scraps
 I sat on this problem for awhile now but Iam ready to let it out because I feel guilty about my lack of action in the cherry community..... as some of you all ready know dh is an underground coal miner and around the end of last month he was injured well a piece of the roof fell on to the machine that he runs after some hospital time and many drs appts we know know that he will require surgery on his back and will never work again if this is'nt stressful on it's own. The lack of money comming in is really taking a toll on meI quit my job only a week before he was hurt and enrolled in lpn classes which i have to finish now that i will be our income source finding a job to work around my classes is proving impossabile. thanks for listening and i want to say i am turely sorry if i've not answered your pm or if you feel as though i snubbed you my mind has been quiet forgetful and i so love it here. sorry about the whine and the long post.

Re: Time for me to let it out

Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 12:22 am
by Flapdoodle
 Oh sweetie, I am so sorry to hear this.

Many hugs to you and sending some good vibes your way as well.

Re: Time for me to let it out

Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 12:25 am
by Northern Brat
 Sorry to hear this!  (((hugs)))  Hope things shape up for you and your family soon.

Re: Time for me to let it out

Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 12:25 am
by -Tracy-
 I'm sorry too. :( (((((hugs))))))

Re: Time for me to let it out

Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 12:28 am
by dianagirly
 That's such a crappy situation with your DH being out of work and I am assuming in pain as well. So many people completely underestimate the mining community. :?
 I know right now that it's super stressful about you not having a job but I agree with ya, your training will end up helping you get a great job when it is through and I think you are blessed to have been led to do this!
 Hang tight, you will make it through this!

Re: Time for me to let it out

Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 12:35 am
by nun69
 that sucks girlfriend...at least you have your lab tech skills to fall back on...I hope it all works out soon...{{{HUGS}}}

Re: Time for me to let it out

Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 12:36 am
by Jeanne Marie's Scraps
 thanks girls it's so nice to have someone listen with out judgeing I'm really sad tonight because dd leaves in the morning for the state vb tourney and I just can't afford to go with her she's never been away like that almost 4 hours away and for two nights I actullay cried today and I never cry tears. I broke my heart to tell her That I wasn't going to be there.

Re: Time for me to let it out

Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 12:37 am
by -Tracy-
 Awwwww (((((((hugs)))))))))  Sorry you couldn't go with her.

Re: Time for me to let it out

Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 12:38 am
by emarie803
 Oh no!!! I'm so sorry (((((HUGS)))))

Re: Time for me to let it out

Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 12:54 am
by luboost
 Sending lots of hugs and a pat on the shoulder!  That's a really tough situation you're going through!  I'm sure you've had to be the backbone of the family since your dh's injury.  I hope things back to a new normal soon for you!  I guess that'll be when you get settled into your new career, huh?

Good luck!

erica :)

Re: Time for me to let it out

Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 1:20 am
by Laura Fiore
 WOW Jeanne...that's alot to keep bottled up. I'm sorry about your dh's situation...has to be very hard, and I'm sure quite a blow to him without even beginning to think about finances.

I'll be thinking about you and your family...you're a strong one, and I know you'll get through this hard time.

Re: Time for me to let it out

Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 1:25 am
by MamaK321
 oh no honey, I'm so sorry to hear this!!  lots of {hugs} to you and I'm glad you felt comfortable sharing with us, thats what we're here for. :)

Re: Time for me to let it out

Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 6:24 am
by Leeanna
So sorry to hear that, big hugs to you guys.

Re: Time for me to let it out

Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 6:52 am
by campangel
 so very sorry,sending out lots of good thoughts and prayers.

Re: Time for me to let it out

Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 6:53 am
by Cutey Honey
 Oh dear! Here's some hugs and warm fuzzies from a newbie!
*hug*

Re: Time for me to let it out

Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 6:54 am
by beachlover
 lotsa {{{{{hugs}}}} to you; we'll be with you to help you get through this :-D

Re: Time for me to let it out

Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 7:41 am
by Beth-W
 That's not a whine and your post is pretty short considering all you are going through.

Best of luck to you and I hope your dh gets better quickly!!  We are here to lean on whenever you need it.  :winkb: :-D

Re: Time for me to let it out

Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 8:03 am
by Kara
 honey I am very sorry and you can vent to us-at least me anytime

I wish him luck with his surgery and you luck with your LPN.....

Re: Time for me to let it out

Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 8:13 am
by fong33
 Jeanne...so sorry to hear about your DH.  Hope that his recovery goes well.  It is hard when you can't be there for your DD, but I am sure she understands and will know that you are with her in spirit.  Hang in ther and come here to "let it out" anytime you need.  Your friends are here for you.  {{{HUGS}}}

Re: Time for me to let it out

Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 8:22 am
by JeanellePaige
 So sorry to hear all that! I hope things start to look up real soon. HUGS!